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Menstruation: Breaking the Silence

During my middle school years, I was taught to keep quiet about my menstrual cycle. Whether at home or school, we would whisper or use code words to discuss our problems. Dealing with the discomfort of painful cramps and mood swings while trying to hide it all was burdensome. Instead of receiving comfort during a time when I needed it most, I was isolated to one room of my house. Initially, I felt ashamed and guilty when I got my first period. The changes happening in my body made me feel insecure. Society's restrictions made me feel impure during those days. I used to pray for my periods to go away, but now I understand their importance. Fortunately, I was raised in a family that encouraged me to have my own opinions and question things. We had open discussions about various topics, but menstruation was different. I was told not to discuss it openly outside the family. While my mother was supportive and my father understood, others did not. However, how long could a free-spirited ...

Turning 3: Growing and Changing Perspectives!

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Readers, We have turned 3! I know I am almost a month late at posting this but this milestone was in my mind since so many days.  It has been such a great pause. Indeed a long break from writing for my heart.  So much has happened to me in these few months. My entire world has shifted topsy-turvy. But the road taken has been worthwhile the experience.  This long pause came as I made an error. An error in my perspectives. Three years ago, that young girl started writing this blog to make her voices heard. But in the process of growing up she lost the essence of her motivation to start a blog. That ferocious dream of writing changed into a feeble goal.  The day when I committed to post something every fortnight,  the intoxicating essence of writing got lost into the web of goals.  Well what I had was what people call, "writer's block." Making blogging a goal made me frustrated as I already had a lot in my plate. It didn't work as it increased another task in ...

This is college life, isn't it?

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While bustling from one bus to metro, I felt lost. Lost in the void ocean of life. It felt like living an ordinary soldier's life without any distinct recognisation in the army of workaholic humans. There was commotion in every nook and corner of every sphere of life. The hustle of completing notes to the bustle of making friends, the commotion to make all ends meet. A maddening rush existed from the corridors of college to the auto stands. Competition exists in every teensy weensy thing one does. From fighting and securing that last seat to working that extra mile to keep pace with studies and college activities, I realized that life isn't a cakewalk! Everyday is a perpetual cycle- rushing to classes for that 'front below the fan seats', eating dosa and kachori in that sweat laden stinking clothes to ranting the tit bits of the long day to my mate. But at night, on revisiting the memory lane of the tiring day, the little struggles seem worthy. The live orchestra of gre...

India Overtakes UK in GDP Race- Should we really be Happy?

 Readers, India has crossed United Kingdom and has become the fifth largest economy in terms of GDP. This is a indeed a huge milestone but netizens, before aggrandizing the milestone let us do a reality check!  So, if you are aware: GDP stands for Gross Domestic Product. It means the total amount of services and goods produced within the boundaries of the country. But have we ever noticed how many stomachs we need to feed from the same profits?  India's population is twenty times more than that of England. So, England is like a small prosperous village but we are like the jam-packed slums surviving on the same produce.  India's GDP has grown, no doubt. But there is little doubt that India's population has grown too aggravating the problem.  If we compare the per capita income of the nations then India is still struggling. India is still at 144th position of the 194 economies. India's unbridled population explosion hasn't let us reach the expected pinnacles of gl...

Decline in Woman's Participation in Work Force: A Stone in India's Path to Success!

Dear Reader, (The views are entirely personal and is not intended to spread hatred towards any person.)   The recent developments in the fields like access to education, freedom, higher incomes and wages for woman are commendable for our country, but we are slowly inching towards a grave issue- reduction of woman in the country's workforce . While woman's literacy growth rate has seen a whooping  jump of 11.8% (Source: Wikipedia), woman's participation has fell to 21% in the recent years. By comparing our  figures with our neighbors like Sri Lanka's 33.7% and Bangladesh's 30.5%, we realize that we are very far behind.  Now let us dive into the reasons of why this problem is spreading its pangs into India. The boon of rising household incomes has turned out into a bane for active participation of woman into the rural workforce. When income increases, woman find it easier to take up their traditional and conventional roles of housekeeping. Unmarried women in the ...

Thoughts on Work Life Balance

Dear Readers, While reading the paper three days ago, the headline, 'Ashleigh Barty has decided to hang up her boots!' shocked me as it did tons of others. How could someone in the top for more than 100 weeks (~2 years) who just won two tournaments back to back and was in the prime of her carrier draw out? But when she pointed out to mental and physical exertion as the obvious reasons, my respect for her thoughts were immense. To me, it also brought out a raw yet subtle truth to the picture, success grinds you to exhaustion. People overwork and never give themselves a comma to rest and revive. A time comes when full stop becomes the reality.  Sadly, even my favorite boy band, One Direction is on a indefinite hiatus because the boys couldn't strike a well balanced work-life relationship. They were on back to back sold out world tours, concerts, recordings and practice sessions that they had barely a few days for themselves. The life looks glamorous in the media but only th...

Happy Woman's Day!

 Dear Readers, Happy Woman's Day to all! Accept my cheerful greeting on this special day.  If you are a lady, then celebrate the spirit of womanhood today. Embrace the fighting spirit present in you and nurture it with love and care. If you need a break, go for it. Don't sacrifice yourself for the sake of family and the society as Your happiness also matters. YOU Matter. You deserve your space and don't hesitate while claiming your right.  If you are a guy, take some time to thank your mother who held your tiny fingers to teach you how to walk, your sister who made your life brighter because of her giggles and carefree smile reminding you of your childhood, your colleague who works with you, your lover who held your hand to travel together this beautiful journey called life. She just wants your support and love.  Love, Diksha.  (P.S. Friends, please show your support and follow me by clicking on the follow button in the sidebar of the main blog window ( Main win...

Reservations: Spilling my Heart Out!

When you are lukewarm about an entrance exam and a notification pops up showing that the already skyrocketing reservations has flown more higher, how do you feel? Devastated and frustrated, right! Now the "unreserved seats" seem a quota to me.  We all know what reservations have done to the talents of our country. The negative impact of the infamous reason for brain drain is never discussed in India in live debates. Why? Because it is like kicking the trusted vote banks of one's party in cost of the future of our country.  Imagine a person going to the same school with you from the kindergarten. You have same books, teachers, tuitions, clothes and resources. Your parents have the same bucks, they both pay tax to the government but when you both are applying for a same seat in a same college, he/she needs less marks to qualify due to being born in a different caste. Isn't it utterly ridiculous? The death of both hard work and talent, I say! The Constitution emphasizes ...

Essays Part-1!

Dear readers, I am so busy now a days due to my upcoming board exams that I really don't get much time to update here. I beg your pardon for that. But I am happy to share a piece of information with all of you. I take part in tons of essay competitions and recently results of Queens Commonwealth Essay Competition were announced. I got a silver award for my entry which is not something very big but it still gives me satisfaction and joy. My topic was Keeping Connected Through COVID 19 . I would like all of you to read that piece. Your suggestions and criticisms are always welcomed!  So, finally: Dear friend, Sitting in a dimly lit room and penning down my thoughts in silence, my emotions are like a string undergoing a harmonic motion. I feel that my words are being addressed to the void- silence which connects all of us spiritually to the cosmos. It is quite ecstatic to connect with you through this letter. Neither do you know my roots nor do I know the corner of the world that you ...

What's on my Travel Bucket List!

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  Background: Someone asked me, " What will be your priority list of countries for one year if you are allowed to live in a country for a month only ?" This looked intriguing and I wrote whatever was on my mind. It's bit frolic from all the seriousness you find in my writing, reader, but I hope you enjoy it!  So I would like to visit these places based on the season, tourist peak and carnivals that I wish to attend:                       #10 years future me exploring the amazing places of the world:.                           This photo looked so inspiring, couldn't resist sharing it! So I would like to visit these places based on the season, touris t peak carnivals that I wish to attend: January: Why not start the long journey by basking in the Sun in the lap of nature! So applying my rudimentary knowledge of Geography, I would visit New Zealand . It i...

Beliefs: Are We Treading a Right Path?

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 Greetings!  The recent news of mayhem in Afghanistan gave me much food for thought. People wage wars to establish peace. What an irony! Will they get peace when most of the men and women die? Do they want to make religion a living hell for people? For ages, religion has been a way to liberate people from sadness but the Taliban  have handcuffed the freedom of soul. It seems that instead of liberating people they are tying a rope around a person. They have made the lives of innocent people stagnant as well as oppressive where the essence of freedom has ceased to flow. They want to take their country to zeniths of glory but how can a country progress where lady workers are asked to leave indefinitely and teaching of science and liberal ideas are banned? How can people be happy in their rule when half of the population's dreams are curbed under a hijab and they are not provided basic rights of education? They are blots in the name of the religion that teaches people about l...

Sports- Something Out of Blue!

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With the dazzle of Olympics slowly dimming away, I have finally found time to pen down my feelings. It was really a proud moment for me. Well, 7th August when Neeraj Chopra was throwing the javelin, I was sitting with my phone on one hand and my other fingers were literally crossed expressing so much of my anxiety as if I was playing the final games. Interestingly, Olympics worked like a strong magnet for me which stole away my online class breaks where I would be found busy checking the online dedicated blogs for the games.  I believe that this Olympics has cast a magical spell on me that has made me lose my mind in the charms of sports. I really laugh that the couch potato who not even likes moving a bit (being a bit hyperbolic here) has a feeling that sports run in her veins. This makes me somewhere admit that sports can be too addicting where people really vandalize stadiums and pass hate messages for some ethnical groups if their team loses. Sports can give an ordinary person ...